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The straight date

Online dating seems to be the norm in dating circles these days, but who gets to decide who should be allowed to date? A number of lawsuits have been filed against online dating company eHarmony alleging that the company discriminates against gays and lesbians. eHarmony has long had a reputation as a “Christian” dating service, perhaps because it was founded in 2000 by an evangelical Christian psychologist and was associated with Focus on the Family, a conservative religious organization.

Plaintiffs claimed eHarmony denied membership to gays, lesbians, and bisexuals. The service offers only two choices: “man seeking a woman” and “woman seeking a man.” eHarmony supposedly did extensive research on married heterosexual couples to develop its exclusive “Compatibility Matching System.” Because the company did not research homosexual couples, it allegedly did not feel equipped to offer a same-sex option.

In a civil rights settlement in New Jersey, eHarmony on November 19, 2008, agreed to establish a same-sex online dating service. Called Compatiblepartners.net, the site is scheduled to launch in spring of 2009. eHarmony continues to deny it engaged in any discrimination.

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One Response to “The straight date”

  1. Ya Says:

    (Can’t get in, then start your own dating site)

    What a stupid lawsuit. I am a lesbian. I am sometimes turned off by dating websites that are only for heterosexuals…

    BUT there are plenty of websites for the LGBT only (lesbian, gay bisexual, transgender) community. Most of these sites do NOT have options for HETEROSEXUALS to to be matched up. So, is that discrimination too?

    For that matter,I belong to clubs that are only for lesbians. I would hate to think that some heterosexual man (or a homosexual man, or straight woman)is going to sue the club because he/she couldn’t membership. Hello, it’s a lesbian club.

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    Same thing with Christian clubs and dating sites. A Christian club, should not have to accept someone into the club who goes against the religious beliefs of the Christian club. Enough with watered down religions.

    Should a Christian preacher with his own church have to accept a Jewish rabbi as a “co-preacher” so he doesn’t get sued for religious discrimination? Should a Bhuddist monk have to accept a rabbi as its leader, so it doesnt get sued.

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